Don’t Change Who You Are Because Others Change Around You

By Candace L. Smith

I continued to receive a beautiful message all throughout the month of September and it was to remain the same no matter what. In the past I would approach relationships with friends, family and partners with positivity but as soon as I felt the chemistry between us change I would change.

If I felt a person pull back from me energetically I would pull back. If that person started moving differently I would automatically change my behavior.

In September God challenged my way of responding to others. He told me not to change. No matter what I felt I have to reconnect back to God move through HIS love. Watching and responding to others will have you moving out of alignment with God.

We cannot receive what God has for us from a lower vibration. Don’t allow the behaviours of others to make you change who you are.

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